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How do I build a culture where people take ownership and tell me when something is going wrong?
When should I design based on intuition vs. data?
I sell used phones on facebook marketplace and my listing photos look like everyone else's
My shoulder's been aching for a week but I don't want to lose my lifting streak
I'm the best man and can't decide if the toast is for him or the whole room
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Nir on why we reach for our phones without deciding to“Your brain has learned that opening social media relieves a quick pang of boredom, loneliness, or uncertainty, so it now cues the habit before you consciously decide.”
Lorraine on getting noticed for your work“Doing great work doesn’t guarantee recognition. Make your impact easy to explain so people can advocate for you when you’re not in the room.”
Guillermo on building Vercel and Next.js“The best things we've done for our brand is the things that we did without thinking we're working on our brand.”
Pedro on where machine learning is headed“The same basic paradigms have been used since the 1950s. At the end of the day, we’re going to need some new ideas.”
Jared on building a community people show up forHosts Revenue Today podcast and top-selling rep at FedEx.
Nick on metabolic health, nutrition, and brain healthCarnivore IBD case series, Frontiers in Nutrition and harvard MD, Oxford PhD, Dartmouth valedictorian.
Matthew on finding the right partner“You want to be happy enough that the right thing doesn’t become your everything.”
Codie on buying businesses and building wealth“You don’t need a revolutionary idea to build wealth. You need a business people already pay for, and the skills to run it better.”
Suzanne on what happens behind closed doors in a layoff“I've personally been involved in laying off well over a thousand people, and the part no one talks about is how fast the dignity gets stripped away: one minute you're trusted, the next a manager you've never met is reading you a script while someone cuts your computer access.”
Zack on a post-AI worldBuilt OpenAI's sales and partnerships teams and honorary Dean, HKUST AI Leadership School.
Kit on cutting a huge to-do list to three big things“I used to write forty-item lists and call it ambition, but it was just avoidance dressed as hard work.”
Madhavan on pricing for profitable growth“Don’t build a product and then ask what to charge. Find out what customers will pay for before you decide what to build.”
Jim on enjoying competition when teammates are more intense“I stopped enjoying baseball when I was chasing what everyone else valued, and I found my game again only when I started competing to raise my own level, not to beat theirs.”
Alina on turning inbound interest into sales meetingsChili Piper valued near $1B and serves Gong, Airbnb, Rippling.
Jeffrey on why treating symptoms is the wrong place to start“Symptoms are late signals, not first causes. In chronic illness the biology starts drifting years before a diagnosis. If you start at the symptom, you are downstream. You may mute the alarm without finding the fire. The body is a network, so ask what shifted in the person's story and physiology that made the symptom possible, then address that.”
Vanessa on sexual expectations couples never say out loud“I don't believe in a universal normal for any stage, but I do think it's completely natural for that early honeymoon frequency to taper off after about a year.”
Omar on what to figure out before quitting for a side project“I went all in only after my side hustle matched my salary on half the hours, because once it had legs, the real unknown became whether I could build systems instead of just doing the work myself.”
Lenny on breaking into product management“A few paths actually work. The safest is transitioning internally, partnering closely with a PM until you can make the case. The second is joining an early-stage startup where everyone does everything. Regardless of path, become the person who deeply understands the customer and can translate that into product insight.”
Vinod on which jobs AI will replaceLed KV's first OpenAI investment and juniper Networks: 2,500x return.
Peter on taking back your evenings from your phone“I stopped checking messages after 6 pm and told my team to call twice if it was truly urgent; nothing broke, and I got ten hours back every week.”
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Doctor says my numbers are the best they've been in a decade. I'm 52 and I feel like I got a second shot at this. I want to make the back half of my life the good half
I've been on fifteen first dates this year and not one second date. I make six figures, I have a good group of friends, and I still go home alone every weekend. Is there something I'm missing?
I missed the game-winning free throw in the district final last week. My teammates said it's fine but I can still hear the crowd groan. I have a bigger game in ten days and I can't shake the feeling that I'll choke again
I run a small candle business and my instagram has 400 followers after a year of posting three times a week. My cousin started a similar account four months ago and already has 3,000. I don't know if I'm using the wrong hashtags or if reels are the whole game now
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