Creator and coach at Above the Veil Method

Help adult children rewrite their childhood programming

I once thought my pain was a personal flaw. It was a survival pattern, and that insight became my method.

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Motherhood

Became a young mother and stepped into my mom's role

After my divorce I retraced my steps so I could attune to my children and take recovery further than my mom did.

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Learn to Love the Self

Found I didn't love myself, then created a course on it

In my inner child healing I saw I didn't know how to love myself. Learn to Love the Self teaches that in four parts.

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Early life

Grew up believing my parents knew everything

Only well into my 30s did I see they were controlling, highly critical and didn't know how to be happy.

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Creator at 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program

Turned my research and life story into a 12-week program

Daily journaling prompts, videos and meditations, plus weekly livestreams. I also trained staff to coach it.

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Life Coach at YouTube channel

Built a YouTube community of over 726,000 people

Many viewers found me through videos like 5 Secrets To Disarm a Narcissist, then joined my coaching program.

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Books

Wrote eight books, including bestsellers on codependency

The Road Back To Me is the one readers mention most, often as their first step before a course.

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Healing

Stopped pretending I was fine and had no needs

Learning to stop running from shame was the hardest part. I broke and fell back into place at the same time.

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Lisa A. Romano

Lisa A. Romano⁠

About

I'm creator and coach at Above the Veil Method, and I wrote eight books on codependency recovery.

Experiences

  1. Creator and coach at Above the Veil MethodHelp adult children rewrite their childhood programming

    I once thought my pain was a personal flaw. It was a survival pattern, and that insight became my method.

  2. MotherhoodBecame a young mother and stepped into my mom's role

    After my divorce I retraced my steps so I could attune to my children and take recovery further than my mom did.

  3. Learn to Love the SelfFound I didn't love myself, then created a course on it

    In my inner child healing I saw I didn't know how to love myself. Learn to Love the Self teaches that in four parts.

  4. Early lifeGrew up believing my parents knew everything

    Only well into my 30s did I see they were controlling, highly critical and didn't know how to be happy.

  5. Creator at 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching ProgramTurned my research and life story into a 12-week program

    Daily journaling prompts, videos and meditations, plus weekly livestreams. I also trained staff to coach it.

  6. Life Coach at YouTube channelBuilt a YouTube community of over 726,000 people

    Many viewers found me through videos like 5 Secrets To Disarm a Narcissist, then joined my coaching program.

  7. BooksWrote eight books, including bestsellers on codependency

    The Road Back To Me is the one readers mention most, often as their first step before a course.

  8. HealingStopped pretending I was fine and had no needs

    Learning to stop running from shame was the hardest part. I broke and fell back into place at the same time.

Follow Lisa for more...

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Lisa A. Romano

Lisa A. Romano⁠

About

I'm creator and coach at Above the Veil Method, and I wrote eight books on codependency recovery.

Experiences

  1. Creator and coach at Above the Veil MethodHelp adult children rewrite their childhood programming

    I once thought my pain was a personal flaw. It was a survival pattern, and that insight became my method.

  2. MotherhoodBecame a young mother and stepped into my mom's role

    After my divorce I retraced my steps so I could attune to my children and take recovery further than my mom did.

  3. Learn to Love the SelfFound I didn't love myself, then created a course on it

    In my inner child healing I saw I didn't know how to love myself. Learn to Love the Self teaches that in four parts.

  4. Early lifeGrew up believing my parents knew everything

    Only well into my 30s did I see they were controlling, highly critical and didn't know how to be happy.

  5. Creator at 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching ProgramTurned my research and life story into a 12-week program

    Daily journaling prompts, videos and meditations, plus weekly livestreams. I also trained staff to coach it.

  6. Life Coach at YouTube channelBuilt a YouTube community of over 726,000 people

    Many viewers found me through videos like 5 Secrets To Disarm a Narcissist, then joined my coaching program.

  7. BooksWrote eight books, including bestsellers on codependency

    The Road Back To Me is the one readers mention most, often as their first step before a course.

  8. HealingStopped pretending I was fine and had no needs

    Learning to stop running from shame was the hardest part. I broke and fell back into place at the same time.

Follow Lisa for more...

WebsiteYouTubeInstagramTikTok

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