Heroic +1: “Hey Kids!”: “Have I Told You About…” (#2009)

Hi, this is Brian. Welcome back to another Heroic Plus One. In our last Plus One, we had a nice little chat about a nice little chat Emerson and I recently had regarding the power of focus. As you may recall, I addressed the fact that listening to an audiobook while trying to solve grandmaster-level puzzles is not a wise idea. It may feel nicer and reduce some of the pain or boredom of sitting with a challenging puzzle for 45 minutes, but it's diffusing his attention and robbing some of the working memory he needs to do his best work. It's also robbing him of the opportunity of being comfortable sitting in silence, contemplating something that long, etc. Now, a couple hours before that little chat, I picked him and Eleanor up from a summer camp. Our drive was awesome. I don't remember how we got onto the subject of antifragility, but we did. Somehow I hadn't told them about the wind and what it does to a candle versus a fire. And that's what we're going to focus on today. Imagine a strong wind blowing. You got it? Yeah. Now, what would that big wind do to a candle? It would blow it out. Exactly. Now imagine that same wind. What would it do to a big fire? It would make it bigger. Me, exactly. And that's what it means to be antifragile. I continued, if you're fragile like that candle, when a big windy challenge hits you, you get blown out. But if you're a big fire, that same wind challenge will make you even stronger. Then I said, that's why the guy who came up with the word antifragile tells us we want to be the fire and wish for the wind. And that's today's plus one. You got a challenge in your life right now? Awesome. If you're human, you do. Now, how can you literally use that challenge to get even stronger? Health challenge? Perfect. You know, you could have stepped up your game a long time ago. Use the challenge as a catalyst and step it up now. Business, financial challenge? Same thing. Relationship challenge? Same thing. Any and all other challenges? Same thing. Be the antifragile fire. Wish for the wind. Use all of life's inevitable challenges as fuel for your growth. All day, every day, especially today.