Finding Presence in Daily Life | Eckhart Tolle Foundation

And when you are disconnected from yourself, which is the spiritual dimension in yourself, then you cannot sit quietly in a room. You're just too restless. There's an inner energy field here. You may have to breathe quite a few times to begin to feel it. And then you feel there's something very alive in here. Something very alive in here. And it starts here, and then you breathe a bit more, you continue to follow the breath with your attention, and then you feel that this aliveness can actually also spread into the rest of your body. From here it spreads into your legs and your arms and your hands. And then you begin to feel that the entire inner energy field of the body Feels alive. I call that the inner body awareness. Inner body awareness. We begin to— not something to believe in, but to realize in your own experience that the physical body is animated by a presence, an alive thing. There's an animating presence within your body, but most humans are completely unaware of that, but it's there, because there's a vast intelligence pervading your body that is the organizing principle behind the unbelievably complex functioning of the physical, every organ, every cell, and they all need to be coordinated. the blood pressure, the temperature of your body, all exactly right. Even now, we only understand a tiny fraction of this intelligent body, but the intelligence is invisible. The intelligence is the animating consciousness in the body, and that is you. So the essence of you is that vast intelligence, and then your body loves that. Your body loves to be made conscious. So to speak, but it's not the physical body, it's something that gives life to the physical body, and it's an immediate realization or experience. Even as I speak now, I can feel, and perhaps you can, breathing, and I can feel the aliveness pervading the the body. That's a beautiful place to be. You're arriving at a deeper identity than the surface identity of the egoic self with a narrative, because when you're trapped in there, you derive your identity from this narrative. And for many people, this narrative, the story you tell yourself, and the story that you call my life. My life is ultimately, on that level, my life is a story. It's not really. Your life is here and now in this moment. You are an energetic presence here and now. That is your life. All the accumulated memories in your mental-emotional field, they're not ultimately your— they're your life situation, So I differentiate between your life situation that exists in the past and your life situation also, one could, you can imagine a future to it too, if, but it's not your life. Don't confuse your life situation with your life. Your life is inseparable from the power of the present moment, the power of this moment. It, is realized within, and this ultimate power is the power of consciousness itself. So what— who— let's say, if I'm ultimately not this person, because you recognize this person as a conditioned entity, a little bit like an actor, On stage and this actor has learned his or her script and the actor is acting out the script of a drama. And maybe the actor has learned the script so well that he's forgotten himself, he has become the script. And reactivity. Completely, there's no autonomy, it's just completely mechanical, You press a button and you get the reaction. And then at some point, perhaps this analogy, this fictitious actor begins to awaken and realize, am I just acting out a script? And if it's a script, who am I? Who is the one who is acting out the script? Who am I? And that's a very interesting question. If you're not the script, Of your life, the conditioning, the person. Ultimately, you're not that. Who or what am I? Okay, let's see. We've already gone into the animating presence within the body. This is where the real you begins. The real you is that vast intelligence that inhabits the body. You are that vast intelligence. And at any given moment, you can become present to the moment, here and now. And for example, in this moment, here and now, and you can ask yourself, what is this moment? How would I describe this moment? And this moment is sensory perception. Mm-hmm. Always sensory perception, visual and auditory mostly, but maybe a little bit of tactile, whatever other senses you have. You may be aware of your body on the chair, and so that's— this moment is the sensory perception. And you may be feeling some emotions, that is also part of this moment, you know, if you feel an emotion right now. And the most essential thing you haven't arrived at when you look at it— it's a good starting point, To enter the present moment, all this, what is, what you are perceiving. And often when you come into the present moment, the first thing you notice more strongly is your sense perceptions rather than your thinking. And that's already an important step forward to, you become more aware of sensory perception. If you walk outside, Instead of being burdened by your useless thinking, hardly aware of anything, or carrying a huge field of unhappiness. But there's the sky, there are trees. In the men's institutions, you only have the sky, you don't even have the trees. There's the sky. The trees, beautiful. And then you see it, wow. And there's no mental labeling. You can actually just look at something and take it in and just be fully present with it. And then you really appreciate it when you don't need to label everything. You're just there, fully present. That's already very important. Or if you're doing something, with your hands, enjoy the doing of it in the present moment rather than making everything a means to an end. Stress arises, dissatisfaction with what you're doing arises because you already want to be at the end of the doing. So if you're working here, some, some of you work here doing this or that, if you're working in the kitchen, Cutting up the vegetables, whatever it is. Is it possible to enjoy that? Yes, if you're present, give it your full attention, and you, and then you move it around. It's quite nice. You don't need a lot of thinking for that. You're just presence. There's there's a there's a longing for humans. To get to be free of this unhappiness-producing mind. I mean, thinking can be a very powerful tool if it's focused, if it's constructive, but in most cases, and for most humans, thinking is completely unfocused and very often toxic, makes you unhappy, creates a fictitious unhappy entity. So necessarily we need to go beyond that. And so you awaken into the present moment in the kitchen or washing your hands, whatever else, sweeping the floor. In Zen Buddhism, Zen places great importance on simple actions as Treat it as a meditation. You sweep the floor and you don't already want to get to the end of it. You treat the doing as an end in itself rather than reduce it to a means to an end. So you enjoy the doing as a meditation. And there's a Zen saying, what is the essence of living in a Zen monastery or what is the essence of the Zen life? And it's described as chopping wood, carrying water. In the old Zen monasteries, they didn't have running water, so the daily activity was you had to chop firewood, and then you had to go to the well and carry the water. That the essence of Zen is to be present in these seemingly insignificant Activities, but they're actually highly significant because your entire life consists of these little things. Not only here, ultimately everywhere, wherever you are, your entire life consists of relatively simple actions. So you're present here, they become a meditation for you, and that's a wonderful shift from being, reducing the present moment always to a means to an end only, a stepping stone to some other moment that you think is more important than this one. I just want to get to the end of this. Well, and then what? And then you have something else and you want to get to the end of that. But not only that, many humans are not only reducing the present moment to a means to an end. More than that, many humans are making the present moment into an enemy. Yeah. And that's a dreadful way. In other words, they're always, they don't like what they're doing, they don't like where they are, they don't like who they're with, they just want to get away from it. But of course you can't get away from the present moment because wherever you go, there you are. So people travel to some other— if you can afford it, you can get a flight, go to Hawaii, and then, okay, for a little while you can look, oh yes, the ocean, it's nice, and then suddenly, the mind. Oh yeah, the mind starts up again. You can't get away from yourself. So that's the Zen living. Living here, Why don't you treat it— this could be a Zen monastery for you. A long, long, long time ago, I spent quite a bit of time in monasteries, and there was a time when I was considering becoming a monk, and then in the end I didn't. That's probably— retrospectively, it's probably a good thing I didn't, but that was an option. And the life in those monasteries is not that different from life here. You probably have a bit more comforts than they have there in many places. You don't have hot tubs and the monastery doesn't, certainly doesn't have hot tubs. Oh, by the way, just this is, Compared to, a little aside, compared to the men's place, this is heaven. And no, all you need to do is add 2 hot tubs and then the name of this institution can be changed to California Institution for Women Spa and Resort. Many hotels do that. They have a tiny little pool and a hot tub, and then they say spa and resort. So attention become present in the doing of things, okay? And also develop the ability of sometimes. Just being without necessarily always filling this moment up with some kind of stuff, thought stuff, talking stuff, just to be able to sit quietly somewhere on a bench or floor, you know, wherever you are, just for a little while enjoy just being. It's easier to do that when you feel the inner energy field while you sit somewhere. There was a French philosopher, I think his name was Pascal, and he said a strange thing. He said, all the troubles of humanity are due to the simple— are due to humans' inability to sit quietly in a room. All the troubles of humanity are due to their inability to sit quietly in a room. That's— when you look at that statement superficially, you say, this can't be true. But if you look more deeply, you can see the inability to sit quietly in a room. Why are you unable to sit quietly in a room? Because you are disconnected from yourself. And ultimately, it means you are disconnected from spirit, because that deeper level of yourself is the spiritual dimension. And when you are disconnected from yourself, which is the spiritual dimension in yourself, then you cannot sit quietly in a room. You're just too restless.