How do you know whether to keep pushing or finally give up?
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I'm applying to college and don't know which schools I'd be happiest at.
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I haven't made a real decision in two years, I just keep reacting.
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I'm six months into something hard and I've lost the reason I started.
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I've quit this habit three times and it always comes back within a month.
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What do you do when success doesn't feel the way you thought it would?
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Ask about real life
picked a fight with the one coworker
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I got promoted to manager three months ago. Since then I've missed two deadlines and picked a fight with the one coworker who could actually help me succeed. I know I'm doing it. I don't know why.
bite my nails down to nothing
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I bite my nails down to nothing when I'm stressed, and I've been stressed for two years straight. I've tried gloves, bitter polish, rubber bands. Nothing outlasts a bad week. What actually breaks a habit instead of just pausing it?
same weekend routine for four years
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I've had the same job, same apartment, same weekend routine for four years. Nothing's wrong exactly, but I realized last week I couldn't remember the last time I tried something new. Is this what being stuck actually feels like?
$11,000 left
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I'm 14 months into paying off $30,000 of debt with $11,000 left. The excitement wore off around month four and now it's just spreadsheets and no going out. How do people keep going once the momentum's gone?