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My wife slept with a coworker at a conference three months ago. She ended it herself and told me everything, unprompted, a week later. We've been in counseling since, and some days feel normal again. I don't know if I'm forgiving her or just getting used to it.

I'm the maid of honor at my best friend's wedding on Saturday and I have four different drafts of the same speech. One is for her, one is for the room, and I can't tell which one is right anymore.

I'm 39, divorced, and dating again for the first time since college. My friends keep setting me up but every date feels like an interview. How do you actually know someone is the one to build a life with?

My mother-in-law has a key to our house and uses it, usually while we're at work, to 'tidy up.' She rearranges our kitchen, comments on my parenting, and shows up unannounced at least twice a week. My husband says that's just how she is. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if he's just used to it.